ECKLEBURG BOOK CLUB | daughterrarium by Sheila McMullin

Exploring the intersection of shame and anger, my work is a fantasy autobiographic. Emerging as lived experience and reenactment daydreams, my poems reflect hostile aggression
against an embodied woman, spectral tendencies to dissociate, maneuver into escapist fantasies, or reproach with candor. It is a trial in empathy. The whole of the manuscript, daughterrarium, explores relationships which are not chosen, which are often mitigated, and exploited as a backdrop to sexual fantasy or maidship. Despite, what emerges by the end of the collection is something with such strength.

What People Are Saying about daughterrarium

“There are those who have hurt you not because you are ignorant, but because you have a heart.” Sheila McMullin’s daughterrarium is a collection of the kindest rage I have ever seen. The book chronicles, among its tendernesses, McMullin’s refusal to turn the rage onto herself–“How not to blame myself for being fragile?”– and the difficulty of locating what is hurting us, or why, and how to heal a wound that is constantly re-opened. If you believe in rage, if you care deeply about women, then read this brilliant book again and again across your lifetime. Otherwise, “You have to get out of the way.”

–Sarah Vap

What are we born into? What does it mean to be loved by God and Earth? What do we owe and to whom? How does one experience the fusion of anger and shame in a mind and body? What do the doctors say to the bodies that are broken? Where do the bodies go when they are taken away from themselves? How does a body heal itself? How does a body degrade itself? How does a body mourn and survive the trauma of fear, pain and abuse? I admire daughterrarium for pushing too far, for making me cringe with its representations of what one human can do to another, of what a body can do to itself. McMullin takes a tenacious look at violence and the abject while also interrogating, with great compassion, the nature of faith, family and growth.

–Daniel Borzutzky

In a dish of fevered poppies, glassy ranunculus, and red tide hunger, the daughter infects herself. She’s infected by self, burning up until McMullin’s cool hand runs across the daughterrarium’s viral waters. Cancer, the crab, a sunrise that won’t clot. The neogothic daughter, her many manifestations bleed together in this prize-winning jailbreak. She says [t]ake me out of this bed and put me back in the grass, but really she’s taking us. Out, back. Give her your hand or get out of her way.

–Danielle Pafunda

Publisher’s Information

 

  • PUBLISHER: Cleveland State University Poetry Center
  • ISBN: 978-0-9963167-5-0
  • DIMENSIONS: 6.1 x 0.4 x 7.9 inches
  • PAGES: 112]
  • PRICE: $16.00
  • RELEASE DATE: 04/01/2017
  • PURCHASE HERE

 

Recommended Works by Sheila McMullin

Favorite Eckleburg Work: https://eckleburg.org/lessons/week-1-evolving-origins-poetry-workshop-2/

End of the Sentimental Journey by Sarah Vap

Sarah Vap’s End of The Sentimental Journey is a beautiful collection of the most critically astute filth I’ve ever read. With humor, stunning insight, and shimmering vulgarity Vap invents a fresh means of poetic critique in the poem itself. What she unveils for us is our own culpability in the gendered policing of contemporary poetry. I, for one, feel stimulated at being called out. I love this book. –Dawn Lundy Martin READ MORE

Lydia’s Funeral Video by Sam Chanse

Lydia’s Funeral Video is a one-woman play that takes that most existential of quandaries — to be or not to be — and transposes it onto a dystopian not-so-distant future. READ MORE

Discussion Questions for daughterrarium

1. Did it make you think about your ancestors, your present family, your distant family, your plant family? I hope so, and how so?

2. How does this book interrogate the distance between shame and anger, and the somatic and/or thought spirals this can trigger?

3. The book uses several tones throughout — how does the movement through each enhance, compliment, complicate, deflate each other?

About Sheila McMullin

Sheila McMullin is author of daughterrarium (Cleveland State University Poetry Center, 2017). She co-edited the collections Humans of Ballou and The Day Tajon Got Shot from Shout Mouse Press. She volunteers at her local animal rescue, is a youth ally and organizer, and holds an M.F.A. from George Mason University. Find more about her writing, editing, and activism online at www.moonspitpoetry.com.

Exploring the intersection of shame and anger, my work is a fantasy autobiographic. Emerging as lived experience and reenactment daydreams, my poems reflect hostile aggression against an embodied woman, spectral tendencies to dissociate, maneuver into escapist fantasies, or reproach with candor. It is a trial in empathy. The whole of the manuscript, daughterrarium, explores relationships which are not chosen, which are often mitigated, and exploited as a backdrop to sexual fantasy or maidship. Despite, what emerges by the end of the collection is something with such strength.


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ECKLEBURG BOOK CLUB | THE FOREVER LETTER by Rabbi Elana Zaiman

Through her beautifully written book THE FOREVER LETTER, Rabbi Elana Zaiman guides readers of all faiths to acknowledge, celebrate, and share their values, wisdom and love in powerful and lasting ways with the people who matter to them most.

Based on the old Jewish tradition of an Ethical Will where elders shared their values and wisdom with the next generation, Elana brings this beautiful practice into the 21st century, making it accessible to people of all ages and cultures. THE FOREVER LETTER offers readers inspiring example letters, motivational stories, and an easy to follow step-by-step process to help them write and share their forever letters. The book is a perfect gift for holidays and rites of passage like Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, confirmations, graduations, marriage, and the birth of a child.

THE FOREVER LETTER has received high praise from authors and speakers Jack Canfield (Co-Author, “Chicken Soup for the Soul”) and Parker Palmer (Author, “Your Life Speak”), relationships’ expert Julie Schwartz Gottman (the Gottman Institute), clergy including Rabbi Sherre Hirsch (Author, “Thresholds: How to Thrive Through Life’s Transitions to Live Fearlessly and Regret-Free”) and Rev. Susan Sparks, (Author, “Laugh Your Way to Grace”), ethics expert Michael Josephson (Josephson Institute of Ethics), Barbara Isenhour (Elder Law and Estate Planning Attorney), Carolyn McClanahan, MD., CFP (Life Planning Partners, Inc.), and Priscilla Long (Author, “Fire and Stone: Where Do We Come From? What Are We? Where Are We Going?”)

THE FOREVER LETTER (ISBN: 978-0-7387-5288-4) is published by Llewellyn Worldwide and is available from Amazon.com, Barnes and Noble and other fine bookstores or ordered directly from Llewellyn.

What People Are Saying about THE FOREVER LETTER

“More than any time in our recent history, it’s critically important for families to come together and share their love and support for one another. Elana Zaiman’s The Forever Letter offers tools, guidelines and examples for grandparents and parents to share their love, respect and values with the next generation.”
-Jack Canfield, Co-Author of “Chicken Soup for the Soul® and The Success Principles™

I love this little book because it’s about writing real letters, a lost art in our time. Even more important, it’s about writing letters that matter to people who matter to us. What could be better than putting words to paper to tell people who we are and what we are becoming, and what it is that we cherish and value—thanking them for the way they helped point us toward our own North Star? Buy or borrow this deeply human book, and use it to write the letter of your life!

—Parker J. Palmer Author of “Let Your Life Speak”, “A Hidden Wholeness”, “Healing the Heart of Democracy”, and “The Courage to Teach”

Rabbi Zaiman showed me that forever letters are one of the most important gifts we can give to people we love and care about. Leaving words from our heart is just as important as passing on our material possessions. I will be recommending this book to clients and friends.

–Barbara A. Isenhour, Elder Law and Estate Planning Attorney, Somers Tamblyn King Isenhour Bleck

Publisher’s Information

  • PUBLISHER: Llewellyn Worldwide
  • ISBN: ISBN: 978-0-7387-5288-4
  • DIMENSIONS: 6×9
  • PAGES: 240]
  • PRICE: $16.99
  • RELEASE DATE: 09/08/2017
  • PURCHASE HERE

Recommended Works by Rabbi Elana Zaiman

Favorite Eckleburg Work: https://eckleburg.org/readingseries/vipra-ghimire/

The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell

The most powerful and important book I’ve ever read. It changed my perspective about how change ‘really’ happens. READ MORE

“Light of the Desert” by Lucette Walters

Amazing book about a Muslim woman who escapes a mercy killing by her father. READ MORE

Discussion Questions for THE FOREVER LETTER

1. What are the most important values that you live and want to make sure that your children and grandchildren carry on in their lives?

2. How do you ask a loved one for forgiveness and how do you put that in a letter that is read and accepted?

3. What was the most important letter you ever wrote and how was it received?

About Rabbi Elana Zaiman

Author Elana Zaiman (Seattle, WA) is the first woman rabbi from a family spanning six generations of rabbis. She’s also a chaplain and travels throughout the US and Canada as a scholar-in-residence, speaker, and workshop facilitator. Visit her at www.ElanaZaiman.com.

 

ECKLEBURG BOOK CLUB | The Accidental Native by J.L. Torres

When Rennie’s parents die in a freak accident, he does what they would have wanted and buries them in Puerto Rico, their homeland. There, he’s shocked to discover that the woman who raised him was not his biological mother. A high-powered attorney, his birth mother Julia is determined to reclaim the son she gave up many years before. This is The Accidental Native by J.L. Torres.

Adrift, with no family in New York and haunted by memories, Rennie is swayed by Julia’s constant pleading that he move to the island. A teaching job at a college in Puerto Rico decides it, and he finds himself flying “home” to a place and culture he knows only through his parents’ recollections. Once there, he must deal with Julia’s strong-willed nature, a department chair not thrilled to have a Nuyorican on staff, squatters living in the house he inherited, students frequently on strike and a lover anxious to settle down. Most disturbing is the rumor that numerous faculty and staff are dying from cancer because the campus, a former U.S. military base, is full of buried munitions. 

Rennie soon finds himself working to expose the government’s lies, though he risks losing his job, his home and even the woman he loves. In his debut novel, J.L. Torres captures the conflict and challenges experienced by Puerto Ricans returning to their “homeland.”

What People Are Saying about The Accidental Native

*Starred Review* In Torres’ inspired debut, Rennie Falto discovers that all of his notions about home, family, and even citizenship no longer apply. Upon the sudden deaths of both his parents, the recent college graduate must accompany their remains to Puerto Rico, the land of their birth, but not his. As far as he’s concerned, he is an American, born to naturalized American citizens. Legal issues compel him to stay awhile, and he meets a beautiful older woman—a complete stranger—who claims to be his biological mother. Circumstances force him to apply for, and get, a teaching job at a small college on the island. And so the tension heightens. While his open-minded parents had always tried to instill in him a sense of pride in his cultural heritage, Rennie was so removed from it in his everyday life that on the island he is considered an alien, a “nuyorican.” Torres does capture the conflicts and challenges Puerto Ricans experience when returning to their homeland, but he reaches beyond the specific to the universal, illuminating the lives and feelings of any second-generation American in a similar situation. –Donna Chavez, Booklist.

“An elegant, heartbreaking novel imbued with a love for what is lost and later found. The Puerto Rican migration has come full circle … a land and its people are one and the same, no matter where one is standing.”
–Ernesto Quiñonez, author of Bodega Dreams

“The reader discovers a beautiful, troubled land and its citizens…suffering from a very real identity crisis. This is a good introduction to a cultural and political situation and to the post-colonial mindset of a people who were granted U.S. citizenship, but who do not enjoy all of its privileges.”
–Judith Ortiz Cofer, author of Silent Dancing: A Partial Remembrance of a Puerto Rican Childhood.

Publisher’s Information

 

  • PUBLISHER: Arte Publico Press
  • ISBN: 978-1558857773
  • DIMENSIONS: 5.4 x 0.8 x 8.4 inches
  • PAGES: 248]
  • PRICE: $17.95
  • RELEASE DATE: 09/30/2013
  • PURCHASE HERE

 

About J.L. Torres

J.L.  Torres was born in Cayey, Puerto Rico, a town in the center of the island.  He grew up in the South Bronx and received all of his formal education in the States, then returned to the island to find “roots” and material for his writing.  After years teaching at the college level there, he returned to New York.  Besides New York City, he has lived in Madrid, Chicago, Los Angeles, and most recently in Barcelona on a Fulbright.  His work focuses on the diasporican experience—living in the inbetweeness that forms and informs the Puerto Rican experience in the US and the island.  In the collection, The Family Terrorist and Other Stories (Arte Publico),the novel, The Accidental Native (Arte Publico), as well as his poetry collection Boricua Passport (2Leaf Press), he aims to go beyond issues of identity, although these are central to that experience.  “Through my fiction,” says Torres, “I am exploring what it means to live a life yearning for ‘belongingness’ at a time when you’re told nation and home are empty concepts, and you have no historical memory of what they ever meant.”  

Torres holds a Ph.D. from the University of Southern California, and an MFA in Creative Writing from Columbia University.  His MFA thesis was a collection of short stories, Salchichon Soup, some of which have been revised and re-written and included in Family Terrorist.  Before earning the MFA, he freelanced with magazines and newspapers, was the Managing Editor for the popular, but now defunct salsa magazine, Latin NY, and published a string of stories in small magazines, including one anthologized in Growing Up Latino, a volume published by Houghton-Mifflin.

While working on his doctorate, and learning to write critical essays,  he channeled his creative writing efforts to poetry.  To date, he has published  various poems in journals such as the North American Review, Denver Quarterly, the Americas Review, Crab Orchard Review, Bilingual Review, Connecticut Review, Tulane Review, Puerto del Sol, among others.  Recently, he has returned to his first love, writing fiction and presently he’s working on a collection of stories dealing with estrangement and researching material for a novel on the Puerto Rican icon, Roberto Clemente.

Currently, Torres is Professor of English at SUNY Plattsburgh, where he teaches American literature, Latina/o literatures, and Creative Writing.  He is the Editor of the Saranac Review  and the Co-Editor, along with Carmen H. Rivera, of Writing Off the Hyphen: New Perspectives on the Literature of the Puerto Rican Diaspora.

He lives in Plattsburgh, New York—known to friends and relatives as “carajo county”—with his wife and two sons, a spirited Coton de Toulear called Moe-Jo, and a lot of snow.   He has no known hobbies, has never been in prison or any gangs, has never had quirky and funky jobs, and is notoriously inept with tools.

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