ECKLEBURG BOOK CLUB | The Object Parade by Dinah Lenney



The Object Parade by Dinah Lenney

This new collection of interconnected essays marches to a provocative premise: what if one way to understand your life were to examine the objects within it? Which objects would you choose? What memories do they hold? And lined up in a row, what stories do they have to tell? 

Each of the essays in The Object Parade begins with one thing — real or imaginary, lost or found, rare or ordinary, animal, vegetable, mineral, edible—every one of which sparks an opportunity for rue or reflection or confession or revelation, having to do with Dinah’s coming of age as a daughter, mother, actor, and writer: the piano that holds secrets to family history and inheritance; the gifted watches that tell so much more than time; the little black dress that carries all of youth’s longing; the purple scarf that stands in for her journey from New York to Los Angeles, across stage and screen, to pursue her acting dream. 

Read together or apart, the essays project a bountiful mosaic of living and loving, of moving to Los Angeles and raising a family; of coming to terms with place, relationship, failures, and success; of dealing with up-ended notions about home and family and career and aging, too. Taken together, they add up to a pastiche of an artful and quirky life, lovingly remembered, compellingly told, wrapped up in the ties that bind the passage of time.



“A pensive perusal of the objects that can define and shape a life… the collection’s pieces build on each other, layer upon vivid layer of Lenney’s personal history, her heart firmly invested in hearth and home…One of the book’s most moving entries also happens to be its shortest: a strikingly gorgeous, two-page homage to Lenney’s daughter, portrayed as a young girl bouncing in the sun trailing a kite flush with bright streamers. An eclectic treasury of the cherished and the evocative.”

 —Kirkus Reviews 


“This creatively structured book remains an enjoyable read, and the standout essays merit the price of admission.” 

Publishers Weekly 


“Spoon, piano, flight jacket, Ferris wheel—The Object Parade courts tactile memory. Driven by Dinah Lenney’s distinctive, insouciant voice, at once engagingly authoritative and tenaciously self-questioning, the heft of a guitar, smell of chicken simmering, or ticking metronome are brought to life again, then re-examined under the magnifying glass of time. The story of family and fate (with its rich panoply of relationship and revelation) unfolds here as “one thing” does inevitably “lead to another” in the hands of an author who gives us genuine insight at its subtle, insistent best.”

 —Judith Kitchen, author of Half in Shade and The Circus Train 


“From politics to the piano to the lament of a mourning dove, Dinah Lenney looks life in the eye and never finds it wanting. Like Proust’s madeleines, her “objects” scent the terrain of this book with memories from the evanescent to the profound. The world itself, examined with joy, shines out through each small detail. You will love this book, one object at a time, right down to its very end.”

 —Linda Gray Sexton, author of Searching for Mercy Street: My Journey Back to My Mother, Anne Sexton and Half in Love: Surviving the Legacy of Suicide


The Object Parade is a rich, poignant homage to, quite literally, the stuff of life. Lenney is a gifted essayist, but her ear for the riddles and rhythms of language reveals the sensibilities of a poet—even a musician. She doesn’t just write to us. She sings to us. You won’t just read this collection, you will hear it.” 

—Meghan Daum, author of Life Would Be Perfect If I Lived in That House 


“How better to track the stages, shape, and meaning of a life than by way of the significant objects in it? But Dinah Lenney is a good deal more than clever. Every object she embraces in this beautifully-wrought book discloses the compressed and hidden power of things, the nouns with which we write our lives. Piece by piece, the author reveals herself as a first rate observer in possession of a kind and generous mind—the most treasurable object in her rich parade.” 

—Roger Rosenblatt, author of Making Toast and Children of War 


The Object Parade is a wonderful book—an inquiry, a quest. The relation of objects to individuals is perhaps its secret charm. It doesn’t simply narrate —underneath is the persistent urgency to understand, to consider, beyond the joys and anguish of the self, the meaning of these bright and sometimes out-of-focus slides that pass before us, revealing not only a life but a growing consciousness. I read with deep pleasure and that sensation of being in a book, that is rarer than it should be.”

—Patricia Hampl 


“Dinah Lenney’s marvel of a book is both unflinching and confiding. Her subjects are, ostensibly, the familiar objects of daily life. But no matter what this writer sets her sights on–a scarf, a coffee scoop, a pair of shoes–its sure to yield unexpected meanings, intricate histories, and memorable stories. The objects in this parade quickly transcend their personal significance to the writer and stir the reader with a sharpened sense of life’s pleasures and risks. Lenney knows that everything we touch has the power to change us.”

—Bernard Cooper


Publisher Information & Purchase Links

Publisher: Counterpoint Press 
Page Count: 200 
Price: 18.75 
Size: 5 X 7 3/4 
Release date: April 15, 2014 
ISBN: 9781619023000



Discussion Questions

1. Consider the objects in your life: if you were to choose five things that represent who and how you are (or three, or seven, or ten), what would they be? 

2. Consider the significance of those objects: Why did you choose them? What makes them valuable? Were they given to you? Did you acquire them all by yourself? Are they even yours or do they belong to somebody else? 

3. What about the structure of The Object Parade? Does it feel deliberate? If you were to read the essays out of order, would they tell a different story? Would that matter? 

4. If it’s true that we come to “creative nonfiction” to figure out what we think and/or what we didn’t know we knew—that is, if the genre is driven by questions—what is Lenney asking and what does she discover about herself and others? 

5. Are you afraid to write about your family? Should Lenney reveal less or more about the people in her life? And does she strike you as objective and fair-minded, or she asking for trouble? Do you suspect she’s some kind of glutton for punishment? 

6. Lenney was originally an actor—so who are the star players in her book? Who most interests you? Who are you most curious about? Who doesn’t get a fair shake?


Dinah’s Recommendations
So Long, See You Tomorrow—William Maxwell
The Beggar Maid—Alice Munro
If Beale Street Could Talk—James Baldwin
Artful—Ali Smith
Are You My Mother?—Alison Bechdel
A Tale for the Time Being—Ruth Ozeki
Dearest Creature—Amy Gerstler
The Sense of an Ending—Julian Barnes
Passing On—Penelope Lively
My Brother—Jamaica Kincaid
A Giacometti Portrait—James Lord
The Circus TrainJudith Kitchen



Dinah Lenney is the author of Bigger Than Life, published in the American Lives Series at the University of Nebraska Press, and co-authored Acting for Young Actors. Her essays and reviews have appeared in many publications and anthologies including the Los Angeles Review of Books, AGNI, Creative Nonfiction, The Harvard Review, The Los Angeles Times, The New York Times, Brevity Online, and The Rose Metal Press Field Guide to Writing Flash Nonfiction. She serves as core faculty in the Bennington Writing Seminars, the Rainier Writing Workshop, and the Master of Professional writing program at the University of Southern California. Dinah has played a wide range of roles in theater and television, on shows such as ER, Law & Order, Monk, Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles, and Sons of Anarchy. She lives in Los Angeles.


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3 Replies to “ECKLEBURG BOOK CLUB | The Object Parade by Dinah Lenney”

  1. Wow. Those are some good questions.

    1. 5 Things: That’s so hard! Hmm. Perhaps whatever notebook I’m writing in that month, a copy of Marya Hornbacher’s Madness (oh man–this could quickly veer towards a discussion on books!), a silver necklace that has a charm of a protractor on it the dude I was dating who turned into the dude I am now married to gave me when we first started dating, the small box of my father’s ashes I have, and a house my family owns in Cripple Creek, CO.

    2. Why these objects: Notebook = writing life, Madness = who I’ve been and who I’ve become, Necklace = shift in sexuality. Ashes = well, dead father. House = family history. They’re all valuable to me because they all represent facets of my identity, which is interesting as 3 of them were “given” to me (necklace, book, ashes), one of them is constantly changing (notebook), and the other one is a large object that holds more history in it than my brain could ever manage (house). I guess that just shows that identity formation is a non-constraining and radical thing!

    3. Structure of The Object Parade: I think the essays can stand on their own, but the structure does feel deliberate. Each story kinda bleeds into the next one, and a fuller, richer view of Lenney’s life is presented. But, again, each one is fantastic and holds its own meaning/stands on its own.

    4. I think a huge part of this collection is about figuring out who she has been through her own retellings of the stories of her life and the live’s of those closest to her’s. I think there’s also a facet of this book that shows how impressions/interpretations of an object (or event) might not be “factual” (when are opinions ever fact?), but they are true to the teller. Thus, Lenney gets a chance to figure out on the facts of her history, but what that history means to her, what about it is true to her.

    Awesome relevant quote from Lucy Johnson’s memoir Trespasses: “at a certain point the facts got in the way of the truth.”

    5. Half of my family is dead, so no! My mother is a huge supporter of my writing, and so she appreciates any story about our family/my life that I write. I don’t think Lenney is asking for trouble. Perhaps if she were saying something like: “Oh I remember this object–it’s when my mom was a huge bitch and made me hate her more” then perhaps she would be asking for trouble. But telling truths to our stories is never “asking for trouble.” Instead, it’s more like an invitation to join the conversation. Like, put it all out there and see what comes of it.

    6. Star players: well, the objects. Maybe because Lenney makes each object she describes rich with history. For me, the flattened spoon is more of a “star” player in the book than Lenney herself as it brings in many different characters and their relationship with each other. Same for the piano, the metronome, the dog leash, and the breakfront. Oh my the story of the breakfront. Amazing.

    Also towards the end there’s the essay that’s a letter to her father.That letter seems key to the book, as I think it sounds the most vulnerable. The object in that essay, I think, is the lack of an object, and that to me feels like a “star” of the book. I think at times what’s missing says more about us than what’s not.

    Finally–the book itself is an object, and I think becomes a “star” in Lenney’s life, as well as the reader’s. In other words, what, now, does this object of this book mean about Lenney’s life? And also, now the reader and Lenney share an object, in a way. This could get all philosophical, so I’ll leave it at that!

    In summation, this book is amazing.

  2. Dear Chelsey—such intriguing answers—
    a protractor—as a charm! There is something about miniatures, don’t you think? Who isn’t obsessed with objects, and especially because I grew up with a designer, my mother, object were everything—she was a collector! She had an eye! But miniature anything is so compelling, from a figurine to a charm to dollhouse furniture. Remember STUART LITTLE? Most enchanting was life in perfect miniature, don’t you think?

    What else? I love that you see the objects as the star players. That they are substantive for you in that way. Not gimmicky, not an excuse, but the real deal. I feel that way, too. I was surprised by the ones I chose—the ones that chose me—it’s like they came into audition and won the parts, y’know?

    Anyway, anyhow. You’ve read the book so thoughtfully, haven’t you? The upshot is that it’s good to be gotten, it really is.

    Many, many thanks,

    1. Oh my god, Stuart Little! Yes!

      Miniatures–excellent point. I love the thought that the objects chose you. That’s a great point and an interesting concept to think about.

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